The BF came up with another bright idea the other day. A brand new project to start. Now let me see. I have a bathtub he took apart to find the leak in about 3 or 4 yrs. ago. I have wood trim on the windows of the house he was going to fix and paint because they have almost disintigrated from the weather. I have all the makings of a pet door that has been started. I have outside trim that is completely stripped off the back door, it’s counterpart replacement standing on edge in the garage. I have a completely overgrown back yard with an orange tree that is growing to ginormous size and spewing oranges all over the place. I have an insurance company that threatens not to renew our policy on our house if we don’t get the junk cleaned out of the back yard.
We need to go get a Christmas tree.
I looked at him and gently said “I think you have enough projects going already, Honey.”
While he did give me the passive aggressive shake of the head and sigh that I have come to know so well, he went to work on the junk in the back yard.
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